I don't want a controlling partner. No they round up other people and start checking: hey do you hate this person to? Attention to detail / focus. Apr 8, 2010. Regardless of the lack of exactness in the MTBI, the simple sharing of points of view between rational people is absolutely worthless if those views are not to be challenged. If ENTJs have an Achilles heel, it's that they don't sweat the small stuff. And ya, a lot of women hate me too ? Women hate me, female bosses and I, no way!!! I also had some major learning issues if not for father's barbaric upbringing I probably would not have developed "survival"techniques. While everyone else is agonizing over a decision, an ENTJ will have spotted the smart way to get things done, mapped out an action plan, and gathered all the resources she needs to accomplish her mission. However, I learned from this situation to at least think twice before doing the risky things since I am working in a bank. I too am an ENTJ and an Aries. I do this because my morals say that it is the right thing to do, and I recognize that some people will have a hard time letting go of an issue until someone has acknowledged their mistake. So Im double weird for a lot of people. Lighten up about this? Finally, we'll explore what makes ENTJs happy, and what they value in their personal relationships. Infographics about personality type, careers and more. Otherwise I will take the lead. Again. You must bow down to me because of that and no complaining. This site uses cookies to keep you logged in if you register. ENTJs and INTPs have a particular personality trait in common: Intuition. This makes them quick to argue when the other person does not share the same viewpoint or easily offends the ISTP. As an ENTJ, I have to say Feels good to know there are others out there :). For more information on the Myers Briggs Type Indicator assessment, please go here. Coupled with MBTIwhich I understand intricately, you can really read a person and anticipate their behavior, not their destiny. Us ENTJ'scan do anything. INTPs may become borderline stalkerish in an attempt to maximize the opportunities for interaction with . Havent been able to pin point what. I am very introverted, she is as far at other extreme. In the end it just kind of manifests as having to put on a different face at work/ school. Exactly, I personally used to do this untill my co worker heloped me big time. It's sad to see so many accounts of woman being too scared to be extroverted. Yet, when hes with me he seems docile and Im the one whos aggressive and on. Why do INTPs like ENFJs? Gemini, ENTJmale. if taking relationship with one, the INTJ is the one that hurt the most. especially those slow ppl oof!! It's just that he 'thinks' emotions rather than 'feels' emotions. Whitney: I do the same at my work place. If you're INTP, what traits do you like about ENTJ? How can you people think you are entjs when you give significance to astrology. It's refreshing to be understood and comforting to be able to be straight to the no bullshit point. Everything else pales in comparison. INTPs are intuitive individuals while ISTPs rely on their senses. ESTJs, INTJs, ENFPs, INFJs, and INFPs, can also be attracted to an INTP, depending on the person and their preferences. As an INTP, I'm constantly re-iterating and self judging. I agree with several points, howeverthese miss the mark: #3 I absolutely admit my mistakes and will offer apologies- Just don't expect me to apologize when I'm not wrong. ENTJs account for less than 3 percent of the general population, but among women, it's the rarest personality type. No one personality is better than the other. I also feel relieved. INTPs inspire ENTJs to be more relaxed on a day-to-day basis while ENTJs motivate INTPs to come up with concrete plans. I used to learn all these talents that people had in order to fit in.. random things.. all my life.. guitar, singing, learning Japenese, running, drawing, photography, violin.. fucking anything. In short, they are good in bed and not interested in one-night stands! 10- tbh, that's both a good and bad thing, yes we need strong leader figures in the world, but too much of us might cause a problem, we are too Passionate and goal oriented, a clash is bound to happen. MBTI says you're the best match. It's also true that I'm mostly right as well. In fact, the boys accept me better and don't ignore me. At the moment, I feel like I'm driving a car with a drawn handbrake. After that I'm saying that since ENTJs typically come off as judgy, i'd expect myself and other INTPs to dislike them. 5-ive given "my way" a lot of thought, I am ready for any scenario cause I thought of them before, you just have to trust me on this one, with all modesty, I'm almost always right and if I'm not at least I'm willing to change or correct also I can't stand something being done wrong In front of me. So you're better than other people? . I'm in accord with you, but not necessarily in accord with the Bully Commander (ENTJ). All comments are moderated. I enjoyed reading it because of how accurate it was and the fact that I've heard all of that before just adds the cherry on top. This highlights a potential communication difficulty between INTP and ENTJ. I don't bring the fire, I am the fire.. lol. Accusing me as rude when I raised my voice because you are still blind of the fact?! You could be sitting in a room with 10 professors and believe yourself to be more knowledgeable than ALL of them put together in one. I find that in talking to her, she gives me most of my ideas for the application of whatever obscure topic I'm studying. If I mess up in a serious way, I apologize. I personally experincesd this my self and i never regret not approving them. I actually have to pretend to be someone else around co workers because they will hate me because my drive and just being me. She's the one that got me thinking about becoming a hiring consultant. While we DO thinkour ways are the best ways and we do tend to be in charge and are great leaders - what MAKES a great leader is someone who can level with those around them and pull them along WITH them. They can be self-absorbed; however, they look that way to others because they are highly complex and have contradictory functions. It sucks, women especially hate me. What's a girl to do? Part of that I'm certain is the natural way our types relate to each other about ideas. 3-saying sorry has never been a problem to me, especially in accidental situations or if im really wrong, but if you don't deserve it you will never hear it from me. Note: I giggle when one must click the CAPTCHA check box below to affirm "I am no a robot." Imagine an apple cut in half, both sides cut face up. And not whinny as entp been describeds! I have a love/hate relationship with the sheer forcefulness of their personality, it's kinda hot sometimes other times it just feels bossy and overbearing [probably when they're using it on me]. Once you master your emotions as an ENTJ, you are unstoppaple to perfection. But who cares. I'm INTJ and felt the ENTJ really annoying to actually never wanted to deal with again. Instead, all those underdeveloped feelings will spill out. I think you should think WHY THE PEOPLE HATE YOU accurately in the first place before accusing them as whiny and jealous of you. While I think Elizabeth is more likely an INTP/INTJ hybrid than an ENTJ, she still has the curious mind and logical, big-picture insight that all NT personality types strive to have. I agree ENTJs are rare. I have never been able to get along with an ENTJ, but best friends with plenty of INTJs. casually playing guitar in my mental arena, http://soredragon.blogspot.com/2008/06/judge-dread.html, Truth, just.Truth. Either that, or they'll look at you like you're a worm. This point relates closely to the idea of emotion. INTPs value ENTJs reasoning. The cognitive features go well with each other. Heres The Truth. Sophia"Get it Girl!!!!!" Myers-Briggs and MBTI are registered trademarks of the MBTI Trust, Inc., which has no affiliation with this site. Sugar coating their language is neither a requirement nor a need unless it's essential to the forward progress of their work. And thats embarassing as hell to me as an INFP. Thats life we complete each other. Because of their inborn personality traits, ENTJs are often thought of as leaders. INTJs and ENTJs never good in relationship to begin with! I have NO patience for people who dont listen or are lazy or refuse to follow logic for the sake of making themselves feel good. Ah good then it is not me! Omg. I am a giving, kind, considerate person. From the MBTI perspective, the best match for ENTJs is deemed to be INTP. I remembered winning a lot of cash from Christmas parlor games, 7 otmut of 12. Realise this is 2 months old. 3. I am extremely kind and friendly, but my perosnal feeling is speaking at funeral is different than addressing a conflict or inatructing someone at work or calling out peoples errors. 1. Being a girl in a male dominated academic school track is hard in the first place but honestly I love the challenge and knowing I'll come out on top is a fantastic feeling. You have to take the time to get to know them. I feel very misunderstood in terms of motivation a lot as my head definitely works with the idea of helping groups thrive. 7- Yes! Although a well-developed ENTJ can enjoy a healthy relationship with any type, it is generally thought that they are most compatible with ISTP and INTP. I am a gemini (saggi moon) ENTJ. No.1: we don't share our feelings because it is not relevant to the subject. For those of us who don't have the same level of drive to do things (which is just about everyone), this level of achievement is exhausting. I am a sagittarius-ENTJ and have the same issues as Aries, it is annoying when female coworkers getjealous for no reasonand so workingfor myself feels great, for that part so far, I didn't know I was an ENTJ before but I have always wondered why my female bosses didn't like me much, despite I get alone well with everyone. This man had some serious ambitions to achieve - he didn't want to be told to lighten up or 'chill.' ENTJs are very protective of their emotions and have a more extroverted approach. But now I don't really care what people think of me. I go for that length just to tell him which one way he should take so he will be better at least in student's eyes (I am student, I know better) and make everything fair, but he refused instead. Recently told a peripheral friend my cold-hearted shoulder is a poor choice for commiserating;tears have no power over me and I don't feel sorry for people whomarinate in their problems, especially when they're very clever and more than capable of doing something about it. But I discovered that it might affect my health and decesion making and learned how to control it. I'm an ENTJ. And as an ENTJ I am the most lihgten up worker in my team for an instance. They're likely to expect sex on a relatively scheduled basis.". Only a true genius realizes that nothing is certain right? Sorry CAN be a hard thing to say but ONLY to those who are untrained in emotional intelligence. INTPs also enjoy debunking and providing greater perspective on some of the ENTJs megalomanic ideas and projects. I am an ENTJ -Pisces. I also try blending in, but it feels too forced. Consedring that we have the biggest balls ever, emotions and charm is left for the rest of the population. As an ENTJ, what do you think people "dislike" about you. Thankfully, on the professional front, I've found a comfortable place which allows me to be me and drive, drive, drive! They also want to strategize on how to get their work done effectively. An ENTJ might not mean to come across as bossy and sharp, it's just so hard to pull those punches. Good to see my chameleon circuits are functioning properly. Honestly, believe what you want, just my 2 cents. You can find more information about the five love languages here. Nothing else. While I may be focused on the bigger picture 99% of the time I am very meticulous about crossing my T's and dotting my I's when I'm planning something. That's the part of theirfunction stack that they havethe least access too, and it's usually the exact opposite of theirusual type. This makes me angry, and makes me dislike ENTJs. Maybe someone will read and get some value tho, People share their emotions because that's how they feel better, "Emotions and charm are left for the rest of the population", People can be nice and care about other people's feelings without lying. Because of the differences between these personalities, ENTJs may often find it difficult to get along with INTPs and can quickly become angry with how their traits clash. I don't see how you equate planning with commanding. For once, I am not being compared to a Disney villain! They trust the data and act sensibly based on that. So I don't share or show them unless they pass some real tests inside. Anyways, Astrology has no factual basis or any evidence of accuracy. Your self-worth isn't defined by the level of your concerete and proven success as much as it's defined by the impressionability of your aggrandized self-conceptualization. Welcome to The Personality Room. At the same time, INTPs may focus on how the situation has played out. ", "I want freedom for the full expression of my personality.". Nobody is ever boring. INTJs don't put yourself in relationship with ENTJs! Adversely, ENTJs are protective of their emotions, goal-oriented, hyper-focused, focused on solutions rather than problems, and fiercely independent. I dont share my feeling but people find it easy to read my face and guess how I am feeling. Im 61, just beat stage 4 cancer, and looking to rebuild a life with some good people as friends, kinda old to learn this truth, but Peterson says 1/3 sleeping, 1/3relationships, 1/3 work. ENTJs can be a bit awkward or appear awkward when they are dealing with emotional situations or people. 1-my main problem is not about sharing my feelings, it's just that I find it hard to express them, infact I think I feel more than average. The Five Love Languages is a registered trademark of The Moody Bible Institute of Chicago, which has no affiliation with this site. Its an excellent relationship for joint personal development. Subservience is an ENTJ's kryptonite - they cannot NOT lead, which is why they have no problem stepping up to the plate to call the shots. ENFJ with ENTJ mom here, i'm trying to figure out ENTJ traits and how 'they work' more in depths since i've been dealing with unpleasant things (my mom's behaviour) for so many times. I am a man with an incredible drive, and I have left a wake of pitiful souls behind, but I always try to find my wingman - usually an introvert. Do ENTJs and INTPs get along? I knew that I deserve special kind of woman. You basically just characterized all of the issues my girfriend and I a currently experiencing. I am just interested. It seems that people think this personality type is about power but for me it comes up like poking apparent leaders with sticks to make sure they actually have a pulse up there. And Whitney, you are disturbingly accurate. I say this humbly and by thinking, not feeling my emotions. Besides, ENTJ women are the highest earners; not only do they outearn women of other personality types, but they make even more . What I'm getting at is that you shouldn't hide your personality type because other people don't like it. There's no way I like like someone and don't answer the same day they wrote something. That being said, I am certainly protective of my deepest feelings and will take some time to fully get everything out I want to say and make sure its an appropriate time and place to say them. I wish people would listen to what I say instead of how its said. I have no problems sharing my feelings - actually I tend to OVER share my feelings more often than not. The greatest struggle for me ( anyway) is to stay humble. I chose to open up to her and was devastated with her decision to leave. And who should apologize for trying too hard? If you are looking for an exciting partnership with an insatiable craving for intimacy, ENTJs are all that and much more. Similarly, they have long-term goals that they strive toward by using their problem-solving skills and natural motivation. I can generally describe the relationship with the top 3. in an intimate relationship, the extraverted nature of the feeling judgement leads to a beneficial openness and empathic directness in responding to the partner's needs. I'm very forward with how I feel and I have 0 problem with telling anyone where I stand. I have found that dis crediting another's passion only indicates that we are condemning another's perspective. INTP personality types rely on their thoughts, feelings, and emotions to guide them and have a more introverted disposition. You need to start your own business, or you will never realize your trueself, or potential. If you don't schedule something it might never happen! INTP and ENFJ personalities are Intuitive; they prefer to focus on the future and think abstractly. I thought I was the only one putting a mask on. Also when people love you they want something in return. Again - I dont know if these are just individual things or if being an ENTJ-T female is different than being an ENTJ male. Aries sun, Capricorn moon, Leo rising. Similar to why people don't like ESTJs. So misinterpreted. Its the wisdom of life. ENTJ's procrastination tendencies can be assisted by seeking value in the activities, breaking up the task into smaller tasks, and implementing completion rewards. Despite growing up with my dad and visiting my mom on the weekends I grew up much closer to her than to my dad (ISTP). I will take the time to answer, even if really busy. I'm an INTP and my mom is an ENTJ. When these two first meet , their first conversation may seem like they have known each other for years. Their common trait of intuition can help them relate and empathize with each other. Anyways, people who think Astrology is useful or even accurate bother me to the core. So far iachieve milestonesthat others cant achieve.. Imjust enjoying it. In fact we know that they are idiots if they are wrong. The details is always my downfall when it comes to anything, and I'm on my best when I have a person with an SF personality with me. If the INTPs concerns were justified and the fastest way to fix it and finish the project is to start over, that's the direction the ENTJ will go. Jayne is a true ambivert, barely an INTJ, and an Enneagram One. For more information, please see our Mirrors by functional stacking but because of the attitudinal differences in every function, keeps things lively and interesting. 'Impersonal' is the adjective that best describes an ENTJ's thought processes; 'interpersonal' is something that other people do behind the scenes. I haver never ever cared how ugly or raw the truth is, just share the truth as that's all we have as a tool from which to make the next step. You can tell me what to do, but you can't tell me not to think you are bossy if you like telling people what to do. 6- true but I've learnt through the hard way sometimes I have to hold back especially on my thoughts. I think you nailed it. And this is personal criticism but his voice is very boring and annoying. INTPs can discuss personal issues because of how ENTJs see the world, and ENTJs can discuss their ideas because of how well INTPs interpret them and provide insight. I constantly felt tired and some other problem came along with constantly try to juggle the mask. This is crazy to read this about myself and some of comments I am a ENTJ and a Leo and I always had problem with jobs and women but crazy part is if they would not pre judge they would find out I'm also cool ppl.. bottom line having this personality type makes it hard to be understood. Read More INTPs Are Not Lazy. You're so business intelligence-focused, you forget to derobotize yourself every once in a while and experience life outside of corporate hell. ENTJ and INTP is truly a match made in heaven. Both personalities are ambitious and willing to challenge the status quo. Freud is 80% fraud, all except the E for Ego, (psychologists) is the R for Relationship, "Lor and NoI are my heroes and I would do anything for them! Murkrow: May i ask, why you are in this forum anyway? Read More Can ESFJs Be Musicians And Artists?Continue. Agree. I am ENTJ-T, you understand us completely. If replying means I have to make a decision or commitment, I prefer to sleep on it. She lives with her husband and daughters in the UK. While admirable in a crisis, this take-charge attitude can come across as controlling, unyielding, and irritatingly opinionated. I sometimes even take the consecquences over my shoulder and be proud of it. Unfortunately, I have always struggled with being diplomatic in a conflict. INFJs help INTPs make and keep new friends and allies. The sound of science being done isn't "eureka!" INTJs are among the most relatablepeople I know. But i didnt feel like I was myself when I made that decision. Enraged at me and accusing me as childish and whiny. I havent lost yet. INTPs often debunk ENTJs theories and concepts with millions of questions and troubleshooting the process, which often leads to misunderstandings in their relationship. INTPs trust ENTJs better when theyre allowed to be spontaneous and adventurous, not preoccupied with how their ideas and actions will be interpreted. Haha, well yes, they seem to do. 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